When you expect dates and everything to be perfect… you’re going to disappointed. There’s no such thing as “perfect”… allow for human error. Trust the process.
The speaker opens by noting that life, appearance, and people — including you and dates — aren't perfect, establishing the video's main theme.
This section argues that demanding perfection sets people and dates up to fail and emphasizes the importance of allowing for human imperfection rather than enforcing impossible standards.
The speaker clarifies that accepting humanness isn't about lowering standards but recognizing perfectionism is unrealistic, and encourages letting go to make experiences feel better.
Life is not perfect. The skin is not perfect. You are not perfect, nor should we expect every date to be perfect. When we expect everything to be perfect, we are setting ourselves up to fail. We're setting our dates up to fail. We have to allow for humanness, right? Not that you have to lower the bar, but perfectionism is unreal. It's unrealistic. So let that goal, allow for human error, and you'll find that things just feel better.
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