What “Safety, Security & Well-being” means to me personally
m. Pacific I know it's been a minute I had some personal stuff I was attending to family matters but I am back happy to be back sharing content with y'all and speak wonder welcome live thanks for tuning in I know it's been a minute this theme this month with everything going on in the world is super super impactful super important anyone that's tuned into this you know the world's so there's a book that I was reading becoming supernatural by Joe dispens Dr. George Spencer good evening speak wonder welcome live any talked about something that was really deep really powerful and I want to kind of talk about this live tonight because of everything that's been going on like the I don't really like to talk about shootings and stuff like that but you know the news and all and what not but they're yeah like I just want to say my condolences for for everyone that was affected by things that happen in Minnesota and you know I heard about that so that that's that's very unfortunate and you know my heart's go my heart goes out to all those families and everyone affected by what it happened there so just want to first by saying that and going back to you know what safety security will be means myself I want to go talk about Dr.
George Spencer's book for him and is becoming supernatural because he speaks kind of speaks to this a little bit in his book and something that he said I'll bring up this it's kind of a quote or paraphrase from the book but he basically says like the world's collective consciousness has a whole the earth the globe whatever you want to call it is changing the universe is changing right and anytime the universe is changing like like because the people like people's generations or generation that we live in you know collectively as a whole as the world people are either predominantly more negative or predominantly more positive right so it's almost like there's been so much negativity going on that though it feels like the world's like consciousness is like shifting so he talks about that in his book so I want to speak about that and when things like what happened happened and are happening more frequently or more regularly people get very fearful they get you know experienced certain people don't feel like themselves people don't they're they're not comfortable in their own skin they don't feel they can connect as well maybe and they're feeling lost so I want to talk about that because people all crave safety we all crave well-being and we all crave security right we want we want to feel those things we want to feel like on our journey towards our personal goals our dreams our ambitions our vision that we're having a positive impact on the world but there's some people out there that they have negative impact on the world and they're doing more harm than good so we want to address that because some people's ideologies some people's principles are not good and they're not in the right place so that's why safety is such an important thing security and well-being to me personally because like a lot of people I got bullied I got bullied in the past and it had a profound impact on me like how I went through life and stuff like that I always felt like I couldn't be myself I was there was like I had a shell bit of a shell for a while and I had to kind of get out of that Mel Myers welcome alive thanks for tuning in and I feel like a lot of people maybe they feel like that too they feel like they they've been in kind of in a shell or COVID also created a shell maybe you didn't maybe weren't bullied maybe I did different type of trauma and that really impacted your life right so I want to say that you know one thing that's a commonality that can that can do a lot of help good evening Mel thanks for tuning into the slide that can help a lot of people is being more loving being more grateful being more cheerful doing things that you really really enjoy that you're passionate about so more passion more love more gratitude more empathy and these are all traits parts of our personality that can be built and anyone that thinks that their personality is static or stuck it's not true I've been reading a few books and I used to think the same thing in the past but what's amazing is we can evolve we can change we can morph ourselves into who we want to become and although it might take some sacrifice it might maybe take some extra elbow grease and so it equities in some cases no matter what we go through I posted I think I posted in the cadres here and it's like my wife said an awesome quote we were on a walk all the all these ideas and everything always seem to come in the shower on walks working out listening to a great song and she said something really stuck with me and it's she said the universe will never give us a challenge or give us some sort of adversity that we can't handle so let me repeat that again so the universe will never give us some sort of adversity that we can't handle or navigate through it was super powerful and I posted a reel on that on my TikTok in my YouTube channel and in the cadres if you're I'm pretty sure but if I haven't I'll post it in here because it's such a powerful statement we're we're all so powerful beyond our wildest dreams our wildest imagination and once we once we lock in on exactly what it is like what we how we want to show up in the world and how we want to contribute to the world like me doing this with you guys this is like mind-blowing to me that I can do this like I can talk to people all across the globe I know we're predominantly in North America but still it's it's a blessing and I'm really grateful that I get to do it and I've been doing it for years and I feel like I'm just getting started so I want to say that so we all crave safety security and well-being and speaking of all being like we talked about before like how you know we're we're trying to improve our personality we're going through our own personal development journey and our well-being can be enhanced through daily meditation daily reading journaling like speak wonder and and others that have tuned into my lives like always get great suggestions let me know in the comments or chime into the chat what is things that you do personally for your well-being to enhance your well-being to help you feel more safe help you feel heard help you feel seen meaningful connection yeah totally I feel like as as much of a digital world that we live in now people are craving connection so much more like especially the next generation like they're even more digital than we are and they they don't know how to connect like like I like to talk to the camera like I'm speaking with like one of my best friends that's why that's kind of the way I try to visualize it or conceptualize it when I start doing content I just keep it like this kind of tonality and I don't really change it and I don't really I don't feel I need to because I that's how I show up that's how I like this is how I talk and I like to just be vulnerable straight up with y'all and authentic all the time and and if that gets you know if that and if less people connect with that that's okay but I'm looking for the true people I'm looking for the people that are like no I need this in my life I need people that are just themselves because we it's refreshing we need more that and we need more people that are showing up as themselves unapologetically and you know making great connections so that's what I want to say today so food for thought type into the comments or speak with others what are the things that you do for your well-being that make you feel happy that make you feel passion excitement maybe what are some things that you do for your safety and security that make you feel more safe or secure or certain in uncertain times because I know we are in and we have been in uncertain times and every generation goes through uncertain times maybe it feels more uncertain for you right now but I can say for certain that there's ways to create more certainty or more flow and presence and connection throughout your life throughout your day-to-day life especially when we focus on the hearing now so let me know in the comments and be sure to share this live if you want with someone else that might need to hear this so thank you all for tuning in find small and big ways to encourage others find small and big ways to encourage others love it speak wonder that's an awesome that's an awesome statement yeah encouragement goes a long way I had a pod I'll I landed here but I want to say one more thing I had a podcast guest on one of my first podcast guests on my mindset podcasts in 2020 during COVID he was probably one of my first 10 guests that I had on that I interviewed and he's name was Rocky Romanello he worked all his way his way all the way up to UPS to like VP or something like that and then he eventually became self-employed but he started in corporate America and he said like I think you hear he was taught it from his mentor or someone else or maybe growing up and one thing he said that stuck with me was pick a word for yourself or a phrase like it's kind of like power statement and then your life you're trying to you're trying to work towards being that word like having that persona or that aura or that energy and his was being thoughtful he wanted people to see him as thoughtful caring that they could connect with him and then mine at a time with energy or enthusiasm when we were having the podcast I was just like brought it up because that's what I was feeling in the moment but now my personal brand and my and who I am as a person is evolved and I like it's one word it's empowerment when you when we interact when I do these lives I do content it's to empower us to empower people I want you to feel empowered empower feels like I'm giving I'm giving power to you I'm giving power back to the people in a way so that's why it feels like it's like so good makes you feel warm and fuzzy it makes it feel like I'm showing up in a positive way into the world so let me know what's your phrase what's your word that if you put it into one word think about it what word would resonate with you as a person on how you show up show up on the daily for your friends your family yourself what word resonates with you my mind's empowerment let me know in the comments or do a post in the card race fear and let me know and we should and I I'll do a post and you can comment on that post and we can help it help us spread in the in the card race fear so thank you everyone for tuning in see ya for wealth was a Wednesday this week ciao hope love it speed blender
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