Money Mindsets - Part 5

Hey, cadre fam, Dr. Carrie here part five money mindsets how to become a millionaire now I'm not gonna give you some golden ticket today or just the keys to success But I am going to unlock one more money mindset for you and that is how you view Success because a lot of us have fear of failure Right, but some of us actually have a fear of success and a fear of oh my gosh What if I actually made a million dollars now you hear about all those stories about people who win the lottery and you know They they don't know how to manage their money They go into debt super quickly and they actually worse off than they were before they won the lottery There's a lot of people that actually have a fear about getting success and Having a lot of money because they're like I don't know how to manage it.

I I fear I would be one of those cases right I'd be on the news just like that person was and so I Want you to first just repeat this out loud. I come out of agreement with the fear of success Say that out loud and then I want you to repeat this. I'm a millionaire. I am successful I am prosperous now I know this sounds hokey, but I actually started doing this because I realized I kind of had a fear of success And I'm going back to what I was saying about my initial money mindset, right? I thought that money was evil and having a lot of money was evil.

So again, I blocked my success in this area I blocked my ability to actually be fruitful and have a really nice Comfortable life with a lot of wealth and all of the blessings that God wants to provide me And so I started saying this every single day. I'm a millionaire I'm successful. I'm prosperous. I was asked to do this exercise in my business mastermind class to think about how much money I wanted to be making in ten years my annual income and I put down one million and Then they had to kind of like come up with a plan of how you're gonna get there right in ten years and I looked at people's papers around me Nobody had one million written down.

They had like ten a hundred million and these are people that are pretty successful already You know, maybe they make like 250k a year and I'm like, how are you getting to ten a hundred million dollars in ten years? And they're like, I don't know exactly how I'm gonna get there But I'm gonna believe that I'm gonna get there and I was like whoa Step back. I can't even picture That kind of lifestyle like I mentioned in one of my other videos. I don't care if my nails are painted guys I'm not like a materialistic person, but you know what I like to spend my money on Travel.

Oh my gosh, if I could travel to every single country That's where my millions would go like that's what I want to do with my millions So these people who value different things, right? They're gonna spend their millions elsewhere But I'm like, so why don't I want let's just start with ten. Why don't I want ten million dollars? That would mean that I could travel first class because I don't like flying really and I could you know travel and comfort and see these incredible places that are Pretty costly to go see right that are like, you know, a pretty costly Plane ticket and you know, that's definitely outside of my budget right now to go to some of these places in the middle of nowhere right that I really want to visit and I thought so why not?

Why can't I want ten million dollars and I immediately thought that makes me greedy I can't want ten million dollars, but I'm also a super generous person and so Bonus tip in this one right now Start to be generous with your money and you will be amazed at the money that comes your way You will be amazed. I started giving money away in droves I started giving every single paycheck I got I gave money away and I thought well This doesn't make financial sense because then how do you actually? Pay for those fun trips that you want to go on but the blessings that have come my way Unexpected because of the generosity I have you unlock something when you're generous.

Trust me. Just just bonus tip Okay, not even a part of this video. Just just bonus tip Try it try generosity and see how your life will change but going back to this How much money I want you to also think about this question What is the amount of money that you would have to have right now for all of your money fears and worry to go away? What is that amount that you just had in your checking account right now that would make it all go away? And I want you to write down a number and then I want you to cross it off Because you are coming out of agreement with that thought There is no amount of money that makes your fears and worry go away.

Okay, I have friends that are Multi-millionaires and they still occasionally have those days where they're like dang a twenty two thousand dollar credit card bill this month I mean, they live large right and that's just a normal credit card bill for them Which is fine because they have the money to pay it off, but they're like Maybe I should work a few more extra hours over time this month, right? Like you you live According to your means and some of us live outside our means. That's not what I'm saying But like we live within our Socioeconomic bracket, right?

So like as you gain more wealth you do different things You spend your money differently and that's why it's so hard for people when their budget shifts downward To then do lifestyle adjustments back down, right and cutting out the nail salon cutting out going to get a massage Which is something that I like doing so just think about that. There's no amount of money There's none that would make you never worry about money again It's just not a thing and so maybe you're one of those people that just never worries about money and that's amazing But I guarantee at some point in your life You've worried about something financial and so there's no amount of money But what you can do right now is start to believe that you are going to have more because it's okay to want more money It's okay, and I really had to tell myself that that that's not a bad thing Also because I am a super generous person right the more money that I have the more money that I can bless people with and One of my greatest one of my greatest idols is Jeff Hoffman founder of Pric eline And he's one of the most generous philanthropists.

I have ever met He's like I can't wait to make more money He's a billionaire because that means I can give it away to more people I have millions that I can give away to people and I just love doing that So why do I keep wanting to be successful and gain more wealth because that means I can impact that many more people's lives And so maybe that's your motivation whatever your motivation is for making more money Just know that it's not a bad thing to want more money And I want you to write down a number that you want to be making in the next 10 years And then I want you to cross it off and I want you to write a higher number Because that's what I did and I put it up in my fridge and I was like That's audacious Okay, that that's a big number, but you know what it's out of my control I don't have full control over how I'm going to do that because I don't believe anymore that money is the result of hard work Right because I came out of agreement with that lie.

So I hope this challenge you guys I I just love talking about this topic because I've had so much growth in this area And as somebody that talks very freely about money. I had some serious hang-ups I had some serious mindset issues in this area And I just want to encourage you to challenge yourself and those things because it's always an area that we can grow in I am not a financial expert. We actually have those on cadre But I just wanted to share my experience with some of these mindsets and what's unlocked for me Because it's just it's been so profound the growth that I've had in this area by By coming out of agreement with some of those lies But I really just believing that I'm going to be a millionaire by believing that money is okay to have It's okay to have nice things.

I don't worship them And guess how many pennies I pick up a week About three. I find that money pennies. Maybe you do too, but I thought it was amazing How many pennies I actually find every single week now that I pick up and last week I picked up a dime Great start to my day. So whatever it is that you guys got out of this I hope it was something and I hope that it challenged your money mindset So thank you for tuning in with the series. God bless