SUNDAY SPARK SESSIONS W/ ALEX

And we're live. Cadre 6 31, one minute over. It is Sunday Spark Sessions. This is your host Alex of the Mindset podcast, helping you flex your mind, body and soul. This is Sunday Spark Sessions and we're going to be talking about letting go of other people's opinions. So if you're joining in on this live, thank you for joining. I'm super stoked for this one. Letting go of other people's opinions. Anmar, welcome to the Live. Thanks for tuning in. Super stoked about this because this is something that we all struggle with.

You know, I still get stuck in this sometimes, this thought loop of like, oh, you know, is this person gonna think about what I welcome Anmar, thanks for tuning in. Join the live. Is this person gonna, you know, like, you know, was this person gonna think about what I'm doing and stuff like that? And to a certain degree it does get to me sometimes, especially with the content creation thing because it is a solo preneur kind of a feat that I'm doing and like, I honestly have done it all on my own and like I've had help from you get like the Cadre sphere I've had, I had to do a lot of my own learning on my own.

But it's just, you know, when you really love something and you want to build something, your vision, your mission, your dream, sometimes in the beginning it is a solo journey, but then over time you start finding more like minded individuals, right, that are other. I'm trying to get connected with more other fellow creators, content creators, podcasters. And then the list goes on and, and then I found Cadre through a podcast guest that I had on my podcast. None of this would have happened without meeting these sorts of individuals, right, that are, that are super amazing people and I wouldn't have met them otherwise if I was too consumed by what other people thought.

So you do get to a point where you stop to care what people think less and less and less and less. And I'm definitely at that point where I could care less what people think. I'm gonna do my thing. This is what feeds me, this is what gives me joy, this is what brings that energy up. Because I know I'm giving value and I'm helping people. Absolutely. It's a mental game changer and mark. So like food for thought, right? Like when you're working towards something, when you're working towards a dream, there's going to be a lot of naysayers, there's going to be haters, especially when you've hit that goal, which might.

Might have seemed insurmountable at the time. And then all of a sudden you hit it. There is a lot of haters and stuff like that. And I saw that, I follow this other creator called hubs life on YouTube. And so he was on, he did his whole kind of brand that he's built is off of him being a regular guy working a 9 to 5. And then because he posted 700 videos. Yes, 700 videos in 700 days. So it's. That's a little. Almost two years straight of posting videos. And he said he was just getting gassed and he was a new dad.

He was working his 9 to 5 and he was doing the content creation at night. And then he was showing after his 9 to 5 5. His 5 to 9. Like everything that he did after. And the guy's a crazy busy guy. So it just goes to show, right? And he. And he made a separate account because he's so busy now. He made a separate account again. He fully monetized his personal brand, went all in on it. He just quit his job like I think in the last six months. So it's very recent. But he's kept his nine to five the whole time while he's been building his brand, which is a smart thing to do.

I'm in the same boat eventually down the road when again, the numbers, depending on where the numbers are at, my dream is to leave my 9 to 5 and do content creation and online personal training full time. So it just goes to show it can definitely be done. It is not easy, but I'm not encouraging anyone to leave their 9 to 5. I'm not leaving my 9 to 5 yet. I'm not ready yet. There's still a lot of work I have to put in, but I have been putting in the work and I know eventually it will come to fruition.

So don't let anyone's opinion sway your dreams. If you've got a dream, dare to dream. And never let anyone else's opinion sway that dream, no matter how harsh or how much they critique you. And another thing I've been really working on, which I suggest that everyone listening in on this live does as well, is try to keep your goals and your dreams to yourself. It's when we're constantly verbalizing them to other people, they. They don't always necessarily see the same valley in our dreams as we, as we do.

So I've been learning to kind of dial back. You know, there's something that there's like a quote that Tim Ferriss said is like, move, move swiftly and in silence when we're trying to attain our goals, because it's nobody else's business what our goals are, right? Like, the Cadre sphere is a perfect place to share your goals and your aspirations and all that. And we're here to help improve each other's mindset. But outside of the Cadre sphere, in real life, when you're acting with others, try and keep your goals to yourself.

Unless it's like, like, people that you totally know, like, and trust that are close to you. It's just. It's just so you don't. Because you're already putting your. I'm already putting myself out here for these. For these lives. I'm already putting myself out there on YouTube, on Instagram, on. On Tick Tock, right? Posting content daily. So I don't need my friends or family or anyone else getting involved and be like, hey, why are you doing this? Because it did happen once. It did happen once when I was getting their opinions and then I was.

And then basically, yeah, like, they, like, they wanted me to, like, stop posting on. I was. Because I was sharing these, like, kind of pieces of content on my personal Facebook and then I just stopped doing that. So. So it can definitely happen. But I'm like, okay, fine, I just won't. No one will know. I will move in silence. I will move swiftly and in silence and I will grind, grind, grind until I hit that goal. So if you have a dream, dare to dream. Don't let anyone else take your dreams away from you.

Whatever you. Whatever your dream is, and, and then make that dream such a big dream that everyone, like, when you hit that goal and you've achieved your dream, everyone looks back and is like, holy smokes, you've already hit that. Whoa. Route 64. Welcome live. Thanks for tuning in to this Sunday Spark session. Happy to have you here. So, yeah, dare to dream, everyone. Dare to dream the biggest dream. So no matter if you hit your dream or not, you end up among the stars in the sky. And because again, like that song, dream a little dream for me.

I've always been a dreamer. I've always been like, I've always had vision. I've always had passion. I just know what I want. And it takes sometimes it takes time to figure out, to know what you want. There's nothing wrong with that. But some people know what they want earlier. Some people don't know what they want until a little bit later. But it doesn't matter. Everyone's on their own timeline. We don't compare. I'm only comparing. I care. I don't care about anyone else. I. I'm only comparing to Alex yesterday and Alex today.

Am I any closer to my goal? And I suggest that every one of you do the same. We're all in this together, but we all have our own goals and aspirations and dreams that we want to achieve. So. And we want to keep those close and sacred to our heart and only share those goals and aspirations and dreams with other dreamers. So thank you for listening in on this live. I really appreciate it. And this is a Sunday spark session, so have a fantastic week ahead. And stay tuned for Wealth Wisdom Wednesday.