WEALTH WISDOM WEDNESDAYS WITH ALEX

Foreign this is your host, Alex Mira of the podcast host mindset. This is Wealth Wisdom Wednesdays. How to stop measuring your worth by numbers and wealth Wisdom Wednesdays. It is 6:30pm PM Pacific. Happy to have you all here. Thanks for tuning into this live and let's talk about that. Let's, let's dig in. Let's dig into that. Andy Mack, welcome to the live. Thanks for, thanks for stopping by. Thanks for tuning in a lot. Anmar, welcome to live. Thanks for tuning in. Happy to have you here. A lot of us struggle with this.

A lot of us put a lot of our worth in numbers. I put a lot of my worth in numbers and frankly, I'm kind of sick of it. Evening, Anmar, Welcome. Thanks so much for being here. Yeah, it's, it can be feel demeaning, it can feel demotivating when we're constantly feeling like we're living by the numbers, numbers in our bank account, sales numbers. We're trying to hit any sort of numbers, right? That growth mindset to a certain extent is thinking about numbers is a part of that. You know, like I'm like, for example, like building my social media following, I'm thinking about that.

My sales numbers at work, I'm thinking about that. Right? But we don't want to get fixated on that. We don't want to get fixated on that number and we don't want our worth, our internal worth, our soul to be tied to numbers because that's, that shouldn't be the case, right? Everyone has a lot of value to give. You can't measure your worth by numbers and compare it to, let's say, someone's character. They've been building like an amazing personality. Like people gravitate toward, gravitate towards that person.

That person's like. So they have this infectious energy. They're great to be around. They have passion, they have discipline. They have the ability to connect with anyone at any given time in different social circles, whether they fit in or not, people gravitate towards them. These are all things that you look at that you want to be looking at besides just numbers. Because you can't tell me that if someone's just got rock solid numbers, let's say in their bank account or at their work and there's for their sales results.

But they're creating toxicity in the work environment or the business. They are going to be a, they will sink a ship, they will sink a like a team if their morale is not good. So and even myself, like I've been running into that in my own workplace. Yep. And like, and in different environments, right? Like every, every one of us, Each and every one of us probably runs into it where someone might have insane sales results, but type of person they are. Ugh. So we got to, we got to detach character from numbers.

They're two different things, right? You could still have amazing character. You can still create and build amazing numbers for yourself in your bank account, at work, in your business, right? Like growing your business step by step, right. Growing your sales. You can do all those things while still maintaining and creating amazing character and amazing personality. And another great thing about our personal. Our personality. Our personality is only at this point in time of your life, your current personal reality.

And I had to really think about that because I'm reading a book on it by Dr. Joe Dispenza and he talks a lot about that. Everyone's personal. Everyone's personality is their current personal reality of where they're at. So if you've learned some things, if you've done well at some things and you really understand yourself and you understand how you think, how you feel, and you have a higher level of awareness and a higher level of emotional regulation, you know, how to self regulate, super important.

Those are things that we should really pay attention to when we're trying to groom someone or from our role or promote them or really think about their character and their personal. Their. Their personality. Because. Because personality is fluid and dynamic and it can be developed, it can be changed, it can be more morphed into something better. And that's what we're all here for in the Cadre sphere, to build our own amazing personal reality. Could be changing our current personal reality or it could be maybe, maybe not amending, but maybe editing our current personal reality, right?

We like some things in our personal reality, but we don't change some other things, right? Which, which in turn where we'd be changing our habits. So these are all things that are super vital that often get overlooked when we're. When we're too obsessed about numbers. And I just wanted to say Cadre, everyone in the Cadre sphere, you all have value, far exceeds and goes above and beyond any sort of number that you feel like you're attached to. So get away from feeling like you're attached to being a number or you are.

You feel like you're a number. Feel like find ways to be more detached from a number and then more falling in love with a process that works for you. So yeah, character is important in serving people and mental health. Yeah, these are super, super vital ingredients to build an amazing human being. Right. Building amazing character and a judge. Help people in the future and start a business. Time will come in the future. Yeah, no, totally. Amar. Yep. It's. These things take time, Right. To change our personality is to change our personal, current, personal reality.

So in order to do that, it's a combination of a lot of different things. Right. Our own personal growth journey, reading, reading from others that have succeeded before us, learning from others that are currently succeeding at what we're going to do, or speaking with mentors and people in the field that we want to get into that are still in the field. Hard work, dedication, grit, persistence, patience, all the P's. Patience, perseverance, persistence, all of those things, and meeting the right people.

And there's a combination of everything. But number one, above all else, is hard work and being a person that you'd want to. Being a person that you'd want to speak with. Like, how would you speak with them if they're like your idol or your. Or your mentor? Like, how would you speak to them? What would you say? You know, you'd give them the same amount of respect that you. That you'd want to be. How you'd want to be treated. Right. So that those are things that, you know, food for thought about how not to.

How not to attach yourself to any numbers or being a number in an organization or chasing numbers. Because for myself, I've just been getting sick of chasing numbers. That's what I've done for, God, seven and a half years. Yeah. So I'm 32 now. Yeah. Because I started banking when I was 20, took a short hiatus and did two and a half years of marketing for, like, a marketing firm. So. Yeah. Yeah. So basically, yeah, like, almost a decade in chasing numbers and trying to bring in numbers. Right. And I.

And the reason why I want to get into the health side of things, because that's right, we got our. You know, everyone's a little bit different. You might have just one passion or several passions, but most of us have. Have several passions. For myself, it's always been finance and fitness. And now they're going like this. Now it's like first love. First love used to be finance and fitness, and now it's fitness and finance. So fitness is first love, finance is second love because of, you know, experience.

And, you know, I'm. I'm like, metamorphosizing right into something else. Like, we get to points in our life where we're like, you know what? I don't know, if I want to continue on this path, I want to do a different path. I want to go left. I don't want to go right anymore. And that's totally okay. So just want to let you know, Cadre's here. I see you, I hear you. And whatever journey you're on, wherever you're at with your career, your business, personally, we're all a work in progress. We're all trying to get better.

We're all trying to improve. We're all trying to be better for our families, our spouses, our partners, ourselves. And for the longest time, my biggest challenge is loving myself more. So learn from my mistakes, learn from me about. Learn how to love yourself more. It's super important because the person that we tend to beat up the most is ourselves. So I'll leave it there. Cadre. Cadre Fam. Thanks all for tuning in to the Wealth Wisdom Wednesday. Hopefully all enjoyed and yeah, food for thought, right?

Learn to detach yourself from any sort of numbers and be more focused on building an amazing personality and process for the things that you do in your career, your business, and your personal life. Thank you, everyone. And if you want to see more content like this, you can check out my YouTube channel, Mind Dash, SEP, TikTok, mine, SEP and yeah, and then any future podcast episodes that I'll occasionally roll out. I'm actually going on one of my former podcast guests, Omar Madrano's podcast tomorrow, 4pm Pacific.

Yeah. So as soon as he sends me the details on that, I'll. I'll turn those into clips and I'll post them to here as well for you guys to check out. So you guys have a fabulous Wednesday evening. Love you all. Take care.