If you’re anything like us, you’ve questioned your self-worth, compared your looks, skills & abilities to someone else and have likely told yourself that you’re not enough. We’re here to remind you that not everything you think or say to yourself is true & that the world needs exactly what you’ve got. Take a listen to learn how to start believing that yourself.
Mary and Jill are social emotional learning experts. They help people develop their emotional intelligence. How do you get rid of the noise to stop comparing yourself to other people? Do not silence what matters to you and show up as yourself.
What's up, Cadre crew? Hello, Cadre. Mary and Jill. Here. We are, social emotional learning experts. We help people develop their emotional intelligence, and we are new to being content creators for this app. So a few things have cropped up for us in taking on this position. One of the major ones is, who are you to be doing this? Imposter syndrome. Right. So, in creating our first couple of videos and dipping our toe in the water, how that's manifested itself is quieting who we are. Right. We're trying to button things up.
We want to make sure that you like us or that we are fitting the box of what we think or how we think we should show up. And you can only imagine, I'm sure you can relate. The noise that gets stuck in your mind. The noise. There's a lot of noise. And how do you get rid of the noise to stop comparing yourself to other people? We call them Gremlins. There's gremlins that live inside your head. That's the perfect picture of it, because one thing we know for sure is that every thought we have is not truth.
And I wish I would have known that a little sooner in my life. However, that's what makes me the perfect coach for a position like this. That's what makes Jill the perfect coach for a position like this is we've learned, and what we want to do now is reach our hand back to others who may not know that truth yet. Every thought that you think is not true, you get to decipher what is and what isn't or what serves you and what doesn't. But that has taken time, energy, and effort to figure out. And what we also love and appreciate is how do you utilize your environment to inspire you?
Who are you drawn to? Who's magnetic that you can start noticing without comparing or making yourself wrong, but just kind of saying, like, I really like how they command a room, or, I love how present they are when I speak to them. Those little nuances help you develop your character so that you can stand alone without feeling like you aren't enough, standing in your power realistically. So. I love what you said about judging people and how you can flip the script on that and notice what you enjoy about how they're showing up for you.
Well, I was just gonna say, remember the awful boss we had? We once had? Which one? We really. We had a boss that we were just not drawn to or inspired by. And we almost vowed to ourselves that if we ever became bosses, that we would never be like that person. So whether they inspire you in a positive way or a negative way. You're starting to collect things that are going to make you the person that you are. Because you. You watching us right now, you're one of one. You are a miracle. You are unique.
You offer uniqueness to this world. And this world needs exactly what you have to offer. It's already inside of you. It might be buried. It might be under several layers of dust. We get it. We've been dusting our whole lives to continue to search for what it is that's inside us that will help inspire others. But honestly, no lie. It's already inside of you. You don't need to compare to other people. They don't have what you need. But look at them and see what you value. Add that to your toolbox in order to continue to cultivate and refine the person who you are.
To be able to show up as your best, brightest and most confident self. We have a secret to leave you with that. There is enough pie for everybody in this world. There truly is. It's endless. It's endless. And we need your talents. We need your gifts. We need you. We need you. The world needs you, Mary. And I need you. Our children need you. So do not silence what matters to you and show up as yourself, because that's what the world needs. Signing out with a little full wattage. Turn yourself up.
Don't quiet yourself because you think other people expect that from.
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