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You're awake don't forget to write Bye bye Solemn farewell Bye bye song See you in September See you when the summer is due Here we are ag north in goodbye at the station to Green T Brown. There's something about that era of music. Now again, I'm 43, but I grew up with six older siblings, so I kind of grew up in that. 40s through 70s is kind of my my jam. But summer, summer sad songs have a special, special feel, especially when it's the beginning of summer. That was See you in September by the Happenings Newland how are you, my friend?

Amar. Marisa. Oh, everybody, what a crew this morning. Well, hey, I'm glad you're here. I'm glad I'm here. I know what I know and I care about you. Those 17 words are how we kick off this Cadre today, every single day. So if you're here for the first time, welcome. If you're here for the hundredth time, hey, welcome. I would love to, in classic Tuesday fashion, share the outward facing click ideology with you. And that outward facing click mentality says, hey, the longer you're here, the less it is about you, the more is about the people who've yet to be here.

And that sometimes goes to our nervous system. What do you mean it's less about me? Well, it's less about you because you understand the mechanisms, you understand the work and you have the ways to go ahead and invite other people to also get to the place where you are. Then all of a sudden the reach that we have, the impact that we have can shift. I often like thinking about the idea of influence. Right again, we're on social media right now, so influence is one of those things we often hear a lot about, as if there are people who have it, which then insinuates that there are people who don't have it.

To be an influencer would logically lead to the fact that that means that you could be a not influencer. I love flipping that script and saying everybody has influence. Who do we have influence over most often? The people that we've formed the most tight knit relationships with. I always love saying you have the most influence with the five people you know the best and who know you the best. Which means that big influencer doesn't have as much influence over those people as you do. But here's the difference.

They exercise their influence where quite often you may not. So if we put those two ideas together and we go, huh? How do we grow this outward facing click? How do you grow those communities that you care about, or how do you increase the bandwidth of the ideas that are meaningful to you? It starts with considering who really likes your presence in this world, who understands your presence in this world, who needs your presence in this world, and inviting them to consider the things that move you, that ground you.

That song, see you in September. I'm from Minnesota, often makes people like me sad because in June it's like, oh my gosh, see you in September, which seems so far away. And then within a snap of a finger, it's like, oh my gosh, September's here. Where did this time go? Time flies when things are in one of two states, either in very, very great alignment or when things are in great dis. Alignment. If you're having a good season, it's amazing how the days can fly by because you're consuming them, you're enjoying them.

And in a similar way, if you are not enjoying the current state, time also quite often seem to fly by because you're looking at all that you're missing, right? It's. It's humid out today. You don't get a lot of human days. And if all of a sudden you're going like, oh my gosh, things are perfect and you're in the world, sometimes it's really hard to be present in that moment and to take that snapshot and go, here's where I am and here's the. The good thing that I can tap into. Or if things are bad, you can go, oh my gosh, this day would be perfect.

But so see you in September is this classic love song of these two people who are not going to be together. But in September, life will begin again. In essence, the. The singers are saying, oh my gosh, I'm going to cease to enjoy life until things are back into the space and alignment in which we are. So full circle. What do we do? Here in the Cadre sphere, we remind you that there are many ways to be well, we invite you to no matter if you're great or not great, as they often say, you know, I hope you're doing great, but if you're not, that's okay too.

There is life to live right now, and even more so on Tuesdays when we often talk about building communities. You have the ability to impact other people in how they live, the lives that they live, not in big ways, as if you're the super influencer with 10 billion followers, and that's the prerequisite for you to have impact, but because people care about you, you may Go and say, but nobody cares about me. I invite you to look at the world and see the people who, in the moment that you have influence on, when you hold the door open, when you smile at someone walking down the street, when you go ahead and play something in the community feed here in the Cadre sphere, and someone who you may not actually know, but someone who you feel like you know right now.

Look at the people who are within this live stream right now. Who here is someone who you've spent time with morning after morning, or if you're one of those new people, you're like, oh, my gosh, this person who just used two exclamation points to say, good morning. I appreciate that energy. Good morning, Maria. Invite yourself to exercise the influence you have to place people within the moment that they're in and to see what there is. Emily says, I care about you. Grateful for all of you to show up and join Emily.

You just did it. You just exercised your influence. Emily. There's no better way to end today's call than with that message right there. Y' all, be who you are in the world in which you are and understand the impact that you have. And even though the happenings won't see their love until September I will see you tomorrow morning Sing along, y' all. Danger in the summer moon above Will I see you in September or lose you or lose you to a summer night have a good, y' all. See you later. Bye. Bye. So long, farewell.