Host shares a two-part interpersonal formula—lead with appreciation and assume connection—and reflects on applying this stance during seasonal change, inviting viewers to try it in their interactions.
For every interaction I ever have in my life, I lead with appreciation. Number two, I assume connection. As you look towards this month, in the season of harvesting, of change, realize that a lot of the things that you've been doing may not be from that seat. Go lead with some appreciation. See what you find on the other side.
Hey, good morning, Cadre. How are we doing today? I hope you're doing fantastic. It's another Monday. It's another. I'm sure it's another something. There's something else you like. Oh, here we go again. But I also bet there's something that's changing, that's shifting around you. Something that's like, I wonder how this is gonna go. No matter what day of the week, no matter where you are, if it's a good time or a bad time, you're always going to have that constant shift of what's remaining the same and what's changing.
Speak, wonder. I'm glad that you are a constant, not changing in the lives of us here in the Cadre sphere. Nice to see you this morning. As I always love to remind you, I'm glad that I'm here. I'm glad you're here. I know what I know and I care about you. As we get kicking throughout almost the back half of October, I always love reminding at the beginning of what is the beginning of a work week for a lot of people that sometimes are not the. Are not the leading moments. But as I always love to talk about the following moments, the moments where you can walk in and not be the person who has to bring all of the energy that you get to lift it, make it happen.
So I'm going to give you my little formula. For every interaction I ever have in my life, there's two parts. Number one, I lead with appreciation. Number two, I assume connection. I walk in being like, hey, I get to spend time with you right now, and that's pretty great. And number two, I go, I bet we already have some things that we have in common, some things that bring us together, some things that we can use to accelerate this moment. Those two things, leading with appreciation and assuming connection are the things that move every opportunity from me being that I need to create in order to.
I get to walk alongside with. So a little shot for you this morning, right? As you look towards this month, in the season of harvesting, of change, of storing up and getting ready for the darker, the colder months, realize that a lot of the things that you've been doing may not be from that seat or stance of leader, but from that appreciating and assuming connection and moving from that. If not, here's your opportunity this week. Go lead with some appreciation. Go assume that there's some connection.
See what you find on the other side. Talk to you later.
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