How To Get What You Want In Life

Hi, folks. How you doing? Nick the poet here. Welcome to what I'm sure is a busy week of the holidays for you. Thank you so much for taking the time to drop into my live stream today. So I'm going to talk about how to get what you want in life. And so have you ever wished that life could be simpler? That all of your desires could come true in an instant? If so, this is not really the video for you. I think the law of attraction is a very real thing, and I think it's maybe part of what we're talking about it.

But in my experience, you know, getting what you want in life requires patience and effort. And I'm talking to you more as a fellow traveler on the journey, someone who's working towards these goals as well. I certainly don't have it all figured out. I just want to share some things with you that have worked for me. So I really believe that it does take knowledge, courage and determination to take the steps necessary for manifesting success. I don't believe it's a, you know, straight road up. I think there's a lot of wiggles and waggles as we're.

We're trying to work towards this, so it's no simple feat. But if we're up for it, you know, the rewards can be vast. And so in this video, I just want to look at why I think a positive attitude is important when it comes to achieving your goals and providing, you know, just some actionable tips and some, maybe some counterintuitive ideas that I think might work for you. And I hope that you can just take something from this video and bring it into your life. So if you've been seeking meaningful ways to make change, I hope that you enjoy.

And I'm going to take a little sip of green tea here. One change, I make it a little more tea, a little less coffee. So the first thing that I wanted to talk about is the art of asking. And so, you know, I really believe that asking can get us, you know, what we want and what we need in life. We're often really scared to ask questions that need to be answered. So maybe you need to ask your boss, you know, how have I been performing lately? You know, do you think that I could get a raise? You know, that could be a question.

Maybe we have to ask ourselves that. Tough question. You know, one that recently came up for me is that I am a bit underweight. I'm six three, maybe, and about, you know, 162 to 165 pounds. And I love to run and I drink too. Much coffee during the day, and then I eat a, you know, a big meal at night and I'm snacking all day, but I'm just not getting enough calories. I'm not making it a priority. And so I had to ask myself that difficult question, what can I, what can I do? And so I've scheduled an appointment with an awesome Cadre coach, nutritional coach, Troy, and then begin working on that.

And it's not that big of a deal. You know, I just have to ask myself that question and then I have to reach out and ask for help, which is never easy, but I believe that art of asking can really, really help us get what we want in life. Another thing that I think can help is to follow your bliss. And so I talk about this one a lot. How can we follow our bliss? How can we take that path of least resistance? Now, the path of least resistance might actually be a really, it might be physically strenuous, it might be hard work, but it's fun because it's enjoyable.

It's things that we like to do. And now sometimes, you know, if, like, sometimes for work, I do spreadsheets and it's like, it's not my favorite thing to do, but it's a small part of the job. It's something that needs to be done. How can I bring bliss to that? Well, I can turn on a great, you know, playlist on Spotify and enjoy jamming out at least while I'm doing this. Like, how can we follow that bliss? Because if we're kind of vibing high, if we're in that good mood, I think that can, can help us.

And that brings me to the positive attitude. The more that we can have that positive attitude, the more that we're going to be able to tap into the energy and the states that are going to help us to achieve our goals and get what we want. Now, a caveat with the positive attitude is that we still need to acknowledge and not deny the problems that are going in our lives. And that's why oftentimes at the end of videos, I say, I wish you peace, positivity and prosperity. But acknowledging that we all have a lot of work to do together.

And so it's not about beating ourselves up, it's just about acknowledging, like, hey, I need, you know, like, for me, it's the, it's the weight thing. Hey, I need to, I need to acknowledge this. This is going on. I'm not taking good enough care of myself nutritionally. You know, it can be different things at different times. And it really helps, you know, if we communicate with. With people and they can communicate with us and, you know, could be like with Cadre, it's so great to have these other awesome creators and coaches and presenters and, you know, they can give us feedback, they can help us stay accountable, all of these great things, because that's another really, I think, point of getting what we want in life.

No person is an island, right? No one is just on their own. We're all in this together. And so when you get better, I get better. When I get better, you get better. It doesn't feel that way all the time. My goodness, it really doesn't. But I really think there's truth to that. So I would just recommend taking some time to reset over the holidays, do some writing, do some introspection, and really think, what do you want in 2023? And for me, I want to be well. That's my main goal. I want to be well, ubuntu.

Luke's mindset with ubuntu, I love. I'm actually going to look up the Ubuntu definition because I think it's such a great. Hey, Sean, thank you so much. Ask questions, follow our bliss. And, yeah, I think those are really the. Some tips that can help, and I really want you to just take some of those actions. But, Sean, stay on the line. I'm going to look up Ubuntu because it's such a great concept, and I want to get the exact definition here. Ubuntu meaning. Give me one sec, guys. What is the real meaning of ubuntu?

So, Ubuntu, Zulu pronunciation. Ubuntu. Luke's got it. I am, because we are humanity, and I think that is one of the premises of Cadre. Right? We're a community. We're a crew. And that's something that I've discovered even more this week and discovered on our retreat last week, like, you do not have to do it alone. Whatever you're going through, you need a crew. You need people to support you. I think that's why a lot of us enjoy team sports, you know, I think that's why people enjoy gyms where they have that community.

Well, that's really what we're seeking to be with Cadre, is to be that community for you, and we can help you get what you want in life. And, you know, that helps us. It helps us just as much to reach out and tell you these things. So, just to recap, the art of asking, don't be afraid to ask. Questions. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Everything you want is on the other side of the fear of asking that questions. And when we have these fears, let's talk about them and then let's move forward. And it's much easier to move forward together.

Right. Just wait until. Yeah, the team, the team, the team. Exactly. When that social community feed comes out, we're going to be, you know, able to interact even more because we want to be. I love doing this. I could. I could go live all day. It is all about the team. And so we got to maintain that positive attitude. We got to keep working and also realizing that, hey, we all have these things that we need to work on. Nobody's perfect. Nobody's perfect, right? But instead of, like, getting down on ourselves, let's acknowledge that, hey, we have work to do.

We can do it together. Let's be accountable and let's have fun doing it. And so all these different ways are things, ways that we can get what we want in life. And once again, I'm just a fellow traveler with you trying to figure this all out. These are some techniques that have worked for me. I hope that you give them a try. And like Luke says, there's no I in team. What does Shan say? There's no I in team. But rearranged, it's meat. Okay. I like that. I don't fully get that, but I'm gonna. It always takes me about an extra five minutes to figure out, figure things out sometime.

But Sean and Luke and everyone else who's listening, thank you so much for tuning in. I hope that you guys just have an amazing, amazing holiday season, and we're so excited to go into 2023 with you. We have so many awesome creators, we have so many awesome coaches, and we're going to do this together. So, remember, peace, positivity, prosperity. But let's acknowledge we have a lot of work together to do, but we're going to do it together. The team. The team. The team. Have a great one. Bye bye, everybody.